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This is my official list of rules that I will follow this year when and if I date. We have lost touch with dating traditions that made us feel special and cared for and safe.  We let things slide to easily and we settle for fwb instead of a long lasting relationship.  This is not saying that fwb is bad, by all means, you go girl!  But this is for the girl who wants a relationship that will last.  I am doing this for myself.  (Keep in mind my Christian values) Feel free to make your own list. 

  1.  Must be Christian. 
  2. Must be open minded and accepting despite religious beliefs. 
  3. Must not be selfish. 
  4. Money conscious is good, cheap is bad. 
  5. He must open and close the door for you both going in and going out. 
  6. He must speak respectfully about others. (I don’t mind a complaint here and there but do not speak negatively in excess about a specific person or thing just because something did not go your way) 
  7. He must take the blame if he is at fault. (Do not constantly blame others because you do not want to take responsibility) 
  8. He must pay for the first date. 
  9. The first date does not have to be fancy but it can not be Netflix and chill. 
  10. Until we are officially in a relationship, no dates should be in your home. ( not because I want to spend money but because it isn’t proper) 
  11. Must have respect for authority figures. 
  12. Does not do any hard or recreational drugs. (Excluding drugs helping with an illness) 
  13. Does not get blackout drunk. 
  14. Does not party or club in excess. 
  15. Must not force drinks on me. 
  16. No means no. 
  17. Must like kids (I’m a nanny) 
  18. Must put some effort into style. 
  19. Must have his own place and a car that is not run down. 
  20. Must have stable job or potential to have a stable job. 
  21. Must have a high school diploma. 
  22. Open minded towards live musicals and any of the arts, like concerts, orchestras, opera, ballet. 
  23. He must love the country side.  (I dislike the city) 
  24. Must be a lover of food but still health conscience. 
  25. Must not judge a woman by the hair on her body. 
  26. Must not judge anyone based on looks they can’t control. 

    Keep in mine there are probably a million things to add to a list.  This is not to say that he has to. Meet every requirement but ladies.  Do not settle.  If you work hard to be a good person then you should not settle for someone who does not put any effort in being a better person.